Friday, May 9, 2008

Success Equation

As you guys know, being an employee can be a very stressful event in our life. I had been one till now. :( Unfortunately! :(
But the company that I worked for is not too bad an employer. We were encourage to attend courses which the company paid for. So being me, ever hunger for new information and knowledge, I was pretty happy with this system even some of my colleague were complaining.
Recently, I had attended a course "Working Effectively with your Supervisor". I choose to attend this course as I had a very difficult supervisor which lately had caused me stressed.
The Speaker is a MBA who owns his own training company. He is Mr Harithas S.
I am not going to share the content of the course, it will take the whole day to write. What I want to share is about the speaker and his success formula. Mr Harithas was a recipient of A lifelong Learner Award in year 2002 in Singapore. He was formerly a Driver to a CEO with only 1 GCE O level. He has a vast experienced such as Deep Sea Diver and other menial worker. With his desire to upgrade himself due to pressure from the neighbours and his own community, he signed up himself for a certificate course and gradually continued till he achieved his master. It takes him 12 years to achieve all this. Currently , he is doing his PHD while juggling as trainer for Govt organisation, the private sector and also lecturing at some higher learning institution.
I am not marketing for him neither am I getting anything from him for this write up. My point is that he inspired me with his lifelong learning journey. Mr Harithas has this motto that he imprint on his name card. 1T + 5D = Success. So what is the 1T and 5D. T is stand for Talent. Everyone of us has a Talent. Each human being is created very unique to themselves. With the plus of the 5D, each individual can achieve Success. Then what is the 5D?. The first stands for DESIRE If you desire something, example, a latest PSP3, I believe you will work hard for it. Its either you will save some money for it, sacrifice other minor desire to achieve it. Second D is stand for DRIVE. So your DESIRE for the PSP3 will DRIVE you to do anything to reach your goal. In the event, if you notice you will discover all your hidden talents in this process. Next come the DETERMINATION. What DRIVE you to achieve your DESIRE, surely you need a lot of DETERMINATION to achieve the first D. One need a lot of determination to achieve one goals. Without it, many goals could not be fulfilled. The 4th D is DISCIPLINE. Most of the successful person in life will tell you that they are very Discipline in whatever they do plus those other 3 D help them to be successful. Not to be missed is the 5th D and that is DEDICATION. We put our effort with dedication, then we will feel that what we do is not a burden. With this we grow to be a better person in what ever we do. The formula that Mr Harithas share is somewhat most of us had been practising with to really realise the power of it to achieve SUCCESS. I'm happy to share this information not just for others but to remind me of it myself. We are actually practically practising this in our life without really think of the action and that action if we behold in our mind can make us achieve success all the time. So before signing off, here are the formula again in short. 1T +5D = SUCCESS and that spelt out as TALENT + DESIRE, DRIVE, DETERMINATION, DISCIPLINE and DEDICATION will in one way or another equal to SUCCESS.
Success to you!

Monday, April 21, 2008

Diversify and Focus

I had not been updating this blog. I had been busy learning the secret of making money in the Internet World. You bet, its been a very fully loaded experience. I'm overloaded with information. Some of the so called gurus proclaimed that their system is the best. Proven and so on. But on checking further, some are scammed. Nevertheless, I only believe to believe those who really walk the talk like Ewen Chia.

Today I had learned from Ewen Chia on selling other people product. Its called affiliate marketing. Ewen made his 1st million through his affiliate business . I had listened to him and learned a new and refreshing lesson from him thru his video. I had learned a few simple steps to earn from internet marketing. You too can join me here. But I must warn you, you better act fast cause Ewen is offering this for a limited time only.

So guys, I can only share with you that much, you can go get your own info from Ewen .

Mind you, this guy is really damn smart and not stingy in sharing his secret with us. I bet you would learn too. So happy learning and wish you all the success.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Events + Response = OUTCOME

Been busy listening to the online seminars. I just want to share what I had learned from the online seminars by a Speaker Mr Jeffrey Goh.

I had attended Mr Goh courses conducted by civil service college of singapore in December. The 2 days courses really knock me down with what he had to share. I didnt realised that Jeffrey is one of the speaker in this Skyquestcom program. When I saw his name and picture (heehhee..he is an old man), I immediately click on it to listen to him.

What impressed me most about Jeffery is that he is always "on the ball". Even he is old, yes, he admit that himself, he never stop learning. Enough of him.

What I had learned through his speaking is what I really want to share here.

Citing himself as an example, Jeffery taught that what ever situation you are face with, if your response is positive, the outcome can be positive too. Many a time, some friends will send us an email to remind ourselves on this. But its kind of read it, forget it story.
Its the same as our daily life, we choose to go to work everyday in response to our responsiblity to feed the children, ourselve, our siblings or whoever that is our responsiblity lies on. Our response for the events (that is = responsiblilties) leads us to work. We work until we forgot to spend life with our family. We forget the real meaning of building up the family. We only focus on the outcome that is to get money, salary, wages, paycheck..you can called whatever the outcome of your works leads to. At the end of the day, we got what we want, to put the bread, rice, noodle or those fastfood on the table for our family. Beside, we work hard to pay our bills, bring up the children. What else? Credit card bills, phone bills, fuel bills, you are surrounded by bills. You slave yourselve to pay the bills and to bring back food for your family.

Dont you realised one thing? Dont you want to spend your little time with your family seeing your children grow?.

Jeffery do managed to opened up my mind. For now, events in my life are being an employee to feed myself, to settle all my bills months after months. I asked myself, what is the outcome to all this in the long run?. Hhhmmm, now I know where is my real destination is. I dont want to be tied up all my life doing what I'm doing now. But for now, I will give myself some times to learn more and reach the ultimate goals in life. To live life to what Life is About. Not slave to my employer, neither slave myself to pays all those bills. If your are keen to join me ..come in.

Oh ya! by the way, Jeffery emphasised that one can never too old to learn. Learning and study are two different words. We study when we are in school. Study to sit for the exam. Now if you tell yourself, you still got the enery to study, then I guess you better check the different meaning of the word study verses learn.

So folks, Learn as much as you can....be a winner not a loser. Adious.